Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Hello there!!!!!!!!!! Zettai Daijoubu da yo

Hi All,



I have been away for along time haven’t I............hardly surprising.....consistency never was my middle name.........



Anyways....I am here now and so are you and are we not well met!!!!

And does the title not puzzle you :-)



Well it is Japanese and means "Everything will definitely be alright"

The relevance.....you ask....

"Zettai Daijoubu da yo" is the "Magic spell" used by a fictional character "Card Captor Sakura" in an anime of the same name.....

Now hold on.....before you close this webpage and relegate me to the special place in your mind reserved for assorted fruits,nuts and the rest of the wierdos.....

Just hear me out ok...............I am going somewhere with this....I promise....



So , all of us carry loads of worry along with us.......troubling thoughts and uncertainities boggle our minds,preventing us from functioning optimally......more importantly....preventing us from knowing the Happiness we deserve.



Now imagine you are faced by a complex problem.You struggle with it , afraid the whole time that you wont be able to come to a solution.....afraid of the consequences of failure.....

At this time..........if you say to yourself "Everything will definitely be alright",you may feel like a phoney the first time .But as you say it to yourself over and over again ,each time with move emotion and feeling,your mood will be changed.You will now act from a state of grace.And the answers will come to you that much faster.And the journey from the surfacing of the problem to its solution will no longer be an agony....it will become an adventure.........



This has working for me..............

Zettai Daijoubu da yo!!!!!



I wish you happiness

8 comments:

  1. Optimism has never been my strong point I belong to the class of people who believe that the amount of time you spend worrying about a problem equals the positive result you get.To me the words"everything will be alight"hold the fear one can never imagine.What do you recommend for someone like me?
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  2. Well,all I can tell you is what I believe.And what I believe is--you can't be happy if you live your life in fear of what will happen next.But then .....everyone worries....including me.....we just do it to different degrees.....
    So here's what I recomment for you : start small.....with some small issue you are worried about....remember it shouldnt be something very important.
    Now,everytime you find yourself worring about it, tell yourself to relax and say to yourself with as much faith and good cheer as you cam muster "Everything will definitely be alright".You may feel like a fake but do it anyways.
    As you do it again and again....it will start working for you.
    Hope this helps....I wish you lots of happiness!!
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  3. I like this article very much...!
    Even if the person i love cannot love me, everything will be alright...right...?
    (^-^)
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  4. @Unknown.....First of all,sorry for the late reply but i just saw this today....anyhow....glad you like the article....

    I know how it feels when the preson you love doesnt love you back....and what I want to say to you is this......everything will not only be alright....everything already IS alright.And you can feel the rightness of it if you just relax.Just relax for a while,take a few deep breaths,give yourself a breakstop trying to do things and just be.....you know.
    Thats what I do and it always helps.You know what....I will go ahead and write a blog post on this.....thanks for inspiring me this Sunday morning.....bye!!!
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  6. @Pooja: I am very glad that you got inspired by my comment...Please notify me if you already posted the blog article...I can't wait to read it... (^-^)

    *give yourself a breakstop trying to do things and just be.....you know.
    >>just be what, Pooja...?
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  7. @Jayson Quinones : Writing the post right now,should be out in the next 1/2 hour, me thinks:)

    Just be.....well....just be yourself...as opposed to struggling and efforting and doing.....
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  8. the new post is out......to get regular updates do join or follow by email!!!

    have a nice day!!!
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