When others are mean to you.......

People do mean things for a variety of reasons,but as I found out today,you need to be able to deal with it without getting hurt or angry or spoiling your mood.


I have heard and read this many times : "You cannot control what others do to you but you can control how you react".

Now I am a person who looses her cool pretty easily.And that's what I started to do today when one of my colleagues was rude to me.But then I thought.......I am done with giving control of my happiness to every stranger or aquaintance.I started to feel better as soon as I said this to my self.

I have realized that the way I feel doesn't have to depend on strangers........or loved ones.The only one who decides how I feel, is myself.I feel deliciously free :-)

Meek! Meek!