Beautiful Quotes!

The happiest people do not necessarily have the best of all
They simply appreciate what they find on their way.




Write your Sad times in Sand.Write your Good times in Stone.


 
It's better to lose your Ego to the one you Love,

than to lose the one you LOVE because of EGO.
 
 
Forget what’s gone

Leave what’s behind you your failures and your pain

Cute pics on Friendship!

Hello Everyone,

These are really nice....
So cute. Did you notice the little dog?

 This pic symbolizes freedom for me.You can be yourself and still be friends

So comfy.........

This is my favourite.....

Happy flowers.....

Love the fuzzyness..........

Friends come in all shapes and sizes,and I somehow like this pic of Kristen and Nikki

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
My friends mean the world to me.........although all of them(without exception) are much too good to be my friends!!Love you guys.....

Part II of : Staying Calm and Relaxed and happy when things get rough at office…

So here’s the second installment of my original ideas on how one can stay cool and happy during choppy times in office.

Original Idea #2 : Don’t bring your ego into matters .I am surprised at the number of issues that are actually ego issues. If you don’t bring your ego into the picture, there’s a lot less conflict.

Out of everything others say to you and everything that happens to you……..take what is useful/makes you happy and discard the rest.Dont take things on yourself .Take things easy and if it isn’t good, just let it go.

Original Idea #3 : Don’t classify what happens as positive or negative, good or bad. Sometimes a bad thing can result in something good. For example a “discussion” about studying from your mom can help you not flunk. The truth is, in most cases you can never know if a thing is positive or negative for you .Yes, some things are definitely BAD. But even so, what’s the use of classifying stuff and focusing on the “bad”. Take things as they come and see most things as what they are……..stuff that happens…….neither good nor bad…….

Original Idea #4 : There’s you and then there’s stuff others think about you and stuff that happens to you .Stuff that happens is not you .Don’t define yourself by what happens or what somebody thinks. You know who you are. Be secure in that, love yourself unconditionally and be who you are.

Meek! Meek!

Staying Calm and Relaxed and happy when things get rough at office…

Long title isn’t it :-)

Anyways things have gotten pretty rough in the project I am working on right now.We have very tough deadlines and everybody is under huge pressure.

As an SQL developer I am part of many modules and almost all of them want me to do my part yesterday……..simultaneously :-)
So things get pretty stressful regularly……..

So this got me thinking………is there a way I can deal with this without losing my happy thoughts……because its going to be like this for a long time and I don’t intend to spend all this time anxious and stressed out.This time I didn’t search the net but ,at the risk of reinventing the wheel,thought up original ideas :-) as to how I could remedy the situation.

Remember ,these Ideas are original only in so far as I never heard of them before…….they may ,however ,exist without my knowledgeJ

First Original Idea : I thought of a person who I believe is really calm and cool and relaxed all the time.Now no such person really exists.But if somebody is really calm and smiling everytime you see them (this will usually be a person you don’t know too well:-)),then you can make assumptions.So I thought of this really calm happy person and behaved as they would behave under the situation.....This actually worked!!!!

Will try this again tomorrow,and think up new ones..

Meek! Meek!

Take care what you wish for...........lest you should get it....

Hi friends...........

Today I learnt that I should never wish for a particular thing...........instead I should just wish for happiness.....because often we are not able to look at all aspects of a situation or thing.........we never know what life with that person or thing will really be like...........sometimes........ that wish that we were ready to die for and were so sure was the only thing that could make us happy.......brings us sorrow....

So today I decide to just affirm happiness and nothing else........affirm happiness and vizualize happiness...

Have a great day guys!!

Send them Love

There are some people you simply cant get along with no matter how  hard u try........

Happiness and Pleasure

Sleeping in late in the morning gives me pleasure but getting up early and exercising gives me happiness.

There……..thats pretty much the gist of all I want to say about that…

Pleasure and happiness are definitely not the same thing………as the above example shows.
So many times it is not easy to do what makes up happy.
But for me,simply understanding that theres a difference between the two won half the battle.

No longer do I think “When I enjoy this activity so much,how come I can’t do it all the time,how come I feel rotten afterwards”.
So are the things that give us “pleasure” and the things that make us “Happy” mutually exclusive.No,I don’t believe so.
I have learnt that things that give us only pleasure are like spices in food,they make the food interesting but you can’t have a lot without falling sick.

I have learnt that pleasure is great but extremely shortlived…….and not very deep…….

But happiness is ……..beautiful….and pleasure cannot come even close...
 
And some things give us both happiness and pleasure some of the time........they make life sweet and blessed
 
Wish you lots of happiness...............

No Thought #1 : Beginning

I have my affirmations in place and my life is good……………..generally!
I have the best husband and the best friend in the whole world and they are the same person……
I have a well paying job and a home of our own………….so I have nothing to complain about………life is pretty much as I hoped it would be.
So why am I not happy like 40% of the time………….

Well there are reasons………but all of them can be handled……..and yet they are sapping my enthusiasm and I am feeling pretty low……..
I can remember a time when I had far bigger issues and used to wish such minor problems were all that were bugging me………
But now that I am beset with those very “minor” problems……………….they seem to loom huge………………

I don’t know what I am going to do about this…………

But I do know one thing………………I have not been following “No Thought”……

We generally think involuntarily and continuously……….and many believe that we cannot be otherwise
After all, didn’t René Descartes say “I think, therefore I am”.
Now, thinking is a necessary activity. But we won’t cease to exist if we cease thinking………..at least continuous habitual thinking (Sorry René! )

To practice “No Thought“ is to function on instinct and gut feeling……………and to let thinking be a voluntary act…………done consciously and only when required.

I believe we are not our mind or body but much more than that.

I also believe that our thought patterns bind us and hinder change…….they keep us moving in the same set grooves of behavior……..

And I feel ready to move to the next level…………with the grace of God and my affirmations…..I have a beautiful life today….and I want to be happy in it…

I know that nobody can be happy all the time……………and maybe I don’t even want to be like that………..because people who are always HAPPY are so annoying :-)
But I do want to be happy most of the time and enjoy life to the fullest…….
And I believe “No Thought” can help me with that……………

So I am going to try it……………….will keep you updated

Meek!

Twilight#2:Twilight Crazyness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes I confess ..............I am a twilight addict at the moment..............I am not a great fan of the books but I really heart the movie.I simply can't bring myself to read the books .....they seem terribly juvenile.....but the movie is something else.......Rob Pattinson as Edward Cullen is simply delicious........and Kirsten Stewert's bella is sweetly pretty.........

Hers's my favourite Twilight wallpaper:

Here are a few pics of bella I like:

A pic of edward,not very good quality but he has that look in it :-)

Meek! Meek !

Twilight #1: Almost every girl's fantasy

Twilight is about a vampire falling in love with a human girl.........we all know this...........fans are CRAZY about this book (and movie) while critics consider it hopelessly juvenile and its main characters "obsessive" (Bella) and "mentally unstable" (Edward).But the critics are few and fans...........millions and millions.......so what is it about twilight that so captures the imagination of its (mostly young) fans.

I believe it is the fantasy of every girl to have that unattainable guy,the guy every other girl sighs over......the one who doesnt want to fall in love..........an incredibly intelligent,powerful,strong guy.......fall irrevocably and completely in love with her.A guy who can give up his very life and happiness without a second thought...for her.When Edward tells Bella "You are my life now....."...........we swoon.........Aaah!!!If only .............:-)

Well! Here's a pic:

Ok enough of that.......wake up now and smell your socks.........As Morpheous said to Neo......"Welcome to the real world"

Meek Meek

Salvador Dali........ Surreal

Here are pictures of some of the surrealist(astonishing,unexpected) objects created by the famous painter Salvador Dali.Pretty interesting haan:

The Lobster Telephone :

Mae West Lips Sofa:

Finally here's a surrealist portrait photograph of Dali by photographer Philippe Halsman.Fascinating:

Tell me what you think guys............

Meek! Meek!

When others are mean to you.......

People do mean things for a variety of reasons,but as I found out today,you need to be able to deal with it without getting hurt or angry or spoiling your mood.